Monthly Archives: August 2009

images (19)My family spent the day at a town carnival. Let me state up front, I hate those things. The rides freak me out. And I don’t know how they do it, but they always seem to find guys with missing or damaged teeth and tattoos to run the rides.

Fortunately, my sons are way into going on rides together. Even still, I came prepared with some malox tablets in case I got called into action. My boys are pretty daring, but today I learned there are limits.

Let’s put it this way, as I heard my sons get locked into the “zipper”-a cage like object that  flips and flops upwards, I had some doubts. But this is why God gave us “denial.” And then I heard the shouts from the sky, “get me out of here!!!!” Yes , those were my sons. images (20)

The carny reassured me he was bringing them down.(pause-who you may rightly ask-seeks parental “reassurance” from a carny.) He said, “the little one was a bit under height regs, but I planned to keep an eye on him.” And then he pointed out, “this rides been around for a long time, so long. In fact, I remember it from when I was kid…..I just never realized I’d be operating one of these things. “

As our kids came running into our arms, I knew what they were thinking…”WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU_HOW COULD YOU LET US GO UP IN THAT CAGE!!!” And that is when I knew, unlike many teachable moments, this was a therapy moment. One I imagine we’ll be hearing about for many years to come.

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1. Obama and the Democrats want to kill the elderly. We already know they freely kill babies, now they are just getting the ones they couldn’t get at birth.

2. Obama is not a citizen of the United States. He simply pulled a major scam on the CIA, the US government, and the American people.

3. Obama is a reverse racist. He doesn’t like white people. And that includes his mother, grandparents and other white relatives.

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5. Obama is anti-American. He wants us to turn in our American cars and buy foreign cars.

6.  Barack Hussein Obama is a Muslim. If he gets a second term, he will openly celebrate Ramadan.

7. Barack Obama will put Rev. Wright, Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson in Cabinet positions.

8. Barack Obama will put one white guy in charge of defense, William Ayers .

Why? Ask the President!

Why? Ask the President!

9. Barack Obama will bankrupt America. This is what he wants his legacy to be.

10. First Obama, then Eric Holder, then Sotomayor, next thing you know……..there goes the neighborhood.

Come on, do you really believe this shit?!

images (17)What is so surprising to me about the Diane Schuler accident on the Taconic highway is that it is so surprising to people. Mothers Against Drunk Driving have been warning us about situations like this for many years.

People that look like her, have families like her, work like her, also drink and drive SUV’s like her. The small difference is they were lucky. They didn’t get into a head on collision resulting in the death and destruction of several families. It’s why people like her sit in AA meetings in some of the best communities in this country.images (18)

imagesThere is nothing remarkable about her husband’s belief that she didn’t drink. It’s called denial. It’s why there are alanon meetings around the world. It’s not my job to determine if she was an alcoholic or drug addict. However ask yourself, what would it take for you to get in a van and drive children, when you know you’ve been high and had some serious alcohol in your blood stream?

images (14)Will someone help me understand why someone would choose to hurt, humiliate, or kill homeless people?

As I read the NY Times today, I was shocked to hear about people paying homeless to get into fights and then videotaping them, setting them on fire, or beating them up. A report due out this weekend from the National Coalition for the Homeless documents a rise in violence over the last decade, with at least 880 unprovoked attacks against the homeless at the hands of nonhomeless people, including 244 fatalities.

Why-you may ask? Because they can.  How low do you have to be to do this? Will the penalty and outrage over this equal the nation’s response to Michael Vick? I sure hope so or we’re one sick nation.

imagesIt’s official, Sonia Sotomayor has been confirmed. She will be the first female Hispanic supreme court justice in our country’s history. This is pretty remarkable.

What is perhaps more remarkable is how ignorant many of the Republican senators proved to be. Did they think if they brought up “the wise Latina” comment enough, she’d break into a “hot blooded Latina” that would rip into them? It appeared most of them had not had much contact with Hispanics. In fact, Ricky Riccardo references seemed to be about as current as they could get. This is a shame. We are not living in the 1950’s.

images (12)What these guys failed to understand is that she has the upper hand. She has learned how to navigate their world in addition to her Latin world. She has endured anything they could throw at her or more. But she is also not sitting there just grateful to get time with them, as she might have in the 1950’s. No, she was there as an equal. And I’m sure to her, anything short of a strong confirmation would be unacceptable.

So while we celebrate her confirmation, let us also remember the senators treatment of her…….especially when it is election time for them.

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Unlike the innovative, “cash for clunkers program” created to stimulate the auto industry and cut down on emissions in the country, the government has experience managing health care programs. Medicare and the VA are two of the most cost effective and highest regarded health programs in the country. Doubt me.? Ask  the elderly or veterans how willing they are to trade their plans in for private health care. They may complain, but will they trade it in for a private insurance  clunker plan? They won’t do it. Therefore it is does not require a huge leap of faith to believe the government could and will operate a health program for all.

If you oppose health care reform, at least listen to what former high ranking Cigna executive , Wendell Potter has to say about the private health care and what it is likely to offer you.

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But of course the doom and gloom, fear based Republicans are complaining that the President didn’t know how many people would participate in the program. Huh? The Obama administration put together a program, studied the risks involved, and took a conservative next step to implement it. Now that it is apparent the American people support this program, the administration will tweak it, improve it, and respond to the public. 

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O10FFCADI67GYCAMF7KD1CAGYJ97WCAC85LH9CAUHLF9NCAAMJ7MOCAVXRMJWCAEBEUPFCAMJWJIKCATN6RZ9CAGR0OI1CAGRAFO4CA4UZ1APCAQTJ3ISCA1F9Q01CA4J6T3WCA1HM14QCAS8B4F0I”m not a Legos dad. I was not raised on Lego’s. I don’t pride myself on years alone in my room playing with Lego’s and building incredible structures. As an adult, I’ve learned that many dads hold very fond memories of their time spent with Lego’s as a kid. Its debatable whether that is a good thing or not. Never the less, I always felt a distance when the talk at a Pump it UP or Chuckee Cheese Party turns to Lego’s nostalgia. Its that mix of wanting to connect but really just not getting it….until today.

My youngest son received two “Bionical” boxes” as a birthday gift. When I saw the cover of a bizarre outer space droid like Bakagun creature, I thought how am I going to put this thing together? And then I saw the “legos” label on the box and thought to myself, “I’m doomed.” But as we opened the box, unloaded the pieces, and put them together, I felt a surge of pride. The parts were small, but not microscopic. Unlike other models, it has these little sturdy plastic balls that attach the components together. And the parts spin around, so even if you screw up, you can turn it around and it still works. images

It was as if Legos realized they need people who are not fans of legos to develop products for non-traditional legos customers, instead of old school purists. Its as if they realized they can have both, and still make more money. It’s like the first time I saw bumpers at bowling alleys. My kids had no idea what a “gutter bowl” was.  The best part of this is I get to appear as a more competent dad than I actually am.  “